What do you do when you keep hearing the same old lies and keep dealing with the same drama over and over again. Do you stay and tolerate it or do you make a decision to leave. Check out this ladies situation and let us know what you think.
I need desperate help. I live in canada. My husband live in the
United States. We been in a long distance marriage for 4 years and 4months.
We have been in long distance marriage, because 1) my husband has a past criminal record and which makes it hard to enter canada.
But he is still trying to come and live in canada. My kids and I could go to the United States to live but we both can’t afford right now.
My other attempt now is to go on a work permit to eventually reside in the United States.
Another problem is my kids can’t stand him because of the argument
and what it has done to me etc. this is my second marriage and I have ended the relationship many times only to go back again.
Why: I can’t remarry again.. I don’t like being alone, I am extremely depressed and have nothing else to do but be with him and argue
I am not being stupid. I am being honest. This is a very toxic marriage. There constant everyday yelling screaming cussing, disrespect etc etc.. I feel stuck, unable to let go even though it is toxic, I get too attached and letting go I don’t and can’t deal with.
This marriage has destroyed my health to the worst. Got me in the hospital for months. I go back and forth about leaving for good. Please help.