It’s important to establish healthy boundaries within your relationship. Sometimes those boundaries involve saying no to sex with your man. Don’t feel guilty. It’s o.k. to take care of you…especially when you know you’ve been holding it down.
At the same time when it comes to sex men experience rejection a great deal more than women generally speaking so pay attention to how you say no and make sure you’re sensitive to his ego (yes, it’s okay to be sensitive to your man’s feelings and his ego ) 😉
Yes, it’s important to be sensitive to our partner and to meet their needs but it is just as important to take care of YOU.