Sometimes we get so used to talking about the issues that we fail to notice the moments were our boo is actually trying to do better. If we really want progress and change to happen in our relationships then we have to pay attention. BE PRESENT! If your attitude and perception of your partner is consistently negative or disapproving he or she will not have much motivation or incentive to make the changes that he or she needs and perhaps even wants to make.
Change is hard. Don’t make it harder by being a ________. Yeah, you’ll figure it out….. 😉 BE PRESENT!